"You are SO RIGHT! There are a lot of bitter women out there who are angry at men and they don't want to see another woman happy in a relationship! If you listen to them, you will end up just as lonely as they are and with a lot of regrets. Follow YOUR HEART and YOUR OWN INSTINCTS. Forget about their standards. Most of the time, these women don't even think for themselves. They adhere to standards that society dictates they should have and those standards are steeped in shallowness and frivolity to begin with."
OMG, I wonder if these society standards are set to keep black women from dating and marrying black men. I understand there are red flags that you shouldn't ignore and some standards are criticle to some people. But if I picked my friends using the same criteria that they have for deciding who to date - then I wouldn't have any friends at all. I know I'm not marrying a friend girl, but I trust her and love her with my whole being and want to receive that same unconditional love.
All of them have killjoy, pessimistic, egotisical attitudes - like they sweat diamonds and their shit smells like linen spray.
So, birds of feather flock together. Association brings on assimilation. What do my friends say about me? I'm an evil, selfish, bitter heifer. That's so not me. As of today, these women have got to go. They don't even read my blog. Ciara's first language is Spanish so she can't even read it.